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Forget Being A Nice Girl! Sexual Fantasies Are Healthy Date: Jun 20th @ 2:36pm EDT
For a long time society wanted us women to behave, be demure, sex wasn\\\'t something we should crave like a man. Well blow that out of the water sister! Because Sexual Fantasies are a healthy and normal part of our being human. What are womens top ten fantasies?
A Doctor wrote about it on Mamiverse and thought I would share it with you all
Sexual fantasies are a normal, healthy, and necessary part of our sexuality. Although considered taboo, sexual fantasies are a way for us to gratify our wishes or conquer intrusive memories of early life trauma, according to psychotherapy doctor Brett Kahr.

Although fantasies are often kept locked in our memories, studies have found that women have recurrent sexual fantasies that are common among them.

Whether they are based on past experiences or totally imaginary, sexual fantasies are prevalent among all, regardless of how people feel about them. Here are the Top 10 fantasies women have:

10. Sex With a Stranger: Most women fantasize about meeting a complete stranger and being taken to a motel and made love-to passionately. In this fantasy, women have sex uninhibitedly. The rationale for this fantasy is that women feel they can let themselves totally lose with a stranger who, most likely, they will never see again.

9. Group Sex: Women fantasize about being engaged in sex with multiple partners at the same time and being touched and penetrated by men and women simultaneously.

8. Dominating a Man: One of women\\\'s most recurrent is to dominate men. In their fantasies, women spank, order him to perform specific sexual acts, make him beg to get what he wants, and have men suck on their stiletto shoes or some other phallic object.

7. Having Sex in Public: Many women fantasize about having an audience while having sex with their partners. In such fantasies, women feel empowered by knowing that others are getting sexually aroused about their sexual performance.

6. Being Dominated: Whether it is to resist and disobey them or to give in to their demands, women fantasize about having a master. Submission that leads to an orgasm after obeying the orders of a master, or fight him to refuse his demands only to be made to experience penetration until she surrenders, is a common sexual fantasy among women.

5. Having Sex With Another Woman: Women often fantasize about touching and being touched by another woman and engaging in sexual acts with other women.

4. Exotic Professional: Women fantasize about being prostitutes or being strippers and getting paid to perform sexual acts with their clients.

3. Two Men: Many women have a recurrent fantasy about having sex with two men at the same time and being masturbated or penetrated by both men simultaneously.

2. Wear the Pants and the Penis: A common fantasy among women is to be in control by wearing a strap-on penis and penetrating men.

1. Being Taken Advantage Of: The number one sexual fantasy women have is to be innocent, naïve, and \\\"new\\\" at the sexual practices and be taken advantage of by a man, especially if this man is in a position of power or influence. Fantasies about noncon/consensual fall in this category, in which women fantasize about being given no alternative but to have sex by a virile and expert man.

WHAT DOES IT MEAN?
All of the above are common sexual fantasies that women have reported to have. However, sexual fantasies do not mean that women (or men, for that matter) necessarily want to act on them. Moreover, sexual fantasies may not be in alignment with a person\\\'s sexual orientation, for instance, a woman fantasizing about being touched by another woman. Dr. Schwartz and Dr. Masters, from the Masters and Johnson Institute, state that having a sexual fantasy, even if this fantasy is recurrent, is not an indicator of sexual orientation. For example, having homosexual fantasies does not imply that a person is homosexual. Therefore, a fantasy may not show a person\\\'s sexual preference; a person\\\'s stated sexual preference is what matters.



How To Treat Her Right Date: Jun 11th @ 12:19pm EDT
I found this little gem online and thought it was a nice change from the regular mysogony that runs rampant online

A Guide to Dating and Treating Women Right For Today's Modern Male

You may have read the title of this piece and smirked because I've mentioned I'm single and have had a number of failed relationships in the past. But the truth is I know how to treat a woman. And because I think treating a woman the right way is something every man should know, I'm sharing my knowledge. Enjoy.

Get to Know Her
It seems simple enough but you'd be surprised (or not) to learn how many dunder-headed men/boys pursue a girl simply because she's nice on the eyes. Not only is that approach disrespectful to any self-respecting woman, but the beginning that's built solely on looks has a shaky foundation and usually isn't long for this world.
Though the task may seem daunting to some, getting to know a lovely young lady is one of life's many joys. Ask her what she likes, what she doesn't like (music, food, movies etc.), what she does for fun. Finding things you have in common will not only give you reason to move forward, but it will also give your heart a little kick.

Ask Her Nicely*
Again, this step seems simple enough but films and stories of old have given some guys the moxy to demand a date with a damsel. "Hey, you. Let's go out" or the like not only makes you seem like the bad guy from a cheesy 80's movie (Billy Zabka anyone? Didn't think so), but it also belittles your intended missus as something to be possessed. A woman isn't to be possessed. She's to be made a partner and a helpmate. (And ladies, the opposite of this is also true. FYI.)
Simply smiling and asking (respectfully!) if she would like to get together sometime in the near future to learn more about each other a bit better is the way to go. Any girl in any situation will not only appreciate this but will also feel respected. And that, my boy, is our goal here.
If she says yes, fantastic! You're on your way. If she declines, don't be disheartened. She's simply saving you some heartbreak down the line.
(*Yes, it is still your responsibility to ask the girl out. You're a gentleman and a gentleman would never allow the young lady to make the first move. Again, respect.)

Take Her Somewhere You Can Talk
A first date is awkward enough. You're nervous, she's nervous and everyone around you can tell you're on a first date. (I'm sorry. They can.) So going to a movie or the like will not only make the situation more awkward due to the lack of conversation but it will reduce the desired progression a first date is supposed to produce. Not speaking to each other in a darkened movie theatre defeats your grand purpose of getting to know this lovely lady better.
Try a decent (read: not fancy but not Taco Bell) place to eat that is well lit and won't make your date fear for her life. Ask her questions about herself and try not to talk about yourself too much. If she wanted a conceited jerk, she'd date John Mayer (Hi-OH!). If you feel the need to prepare these questions beforehand, do so. Just don't pull out a piece of notebook paper and start reading off questions right there at the table. You may be adorable but even you can't pull that off.
At the end of the night, no matter how the date has gone, you're going to want to kiss her. Don't. Please don't. Don't even try. A first date isn't for kissing. She deserves your respect, so drive her home, walk her to her door and say goodnight respectfully and with a smile. I SWEAR TO YOU that she'll appreciate this. And when it is time to kiss this wonder of a woman, it's about when she wants to, not you. I need you to trust me right here: you WILL know when she wants you to kiss her. Women are intelligent beings and though they may be ladylike or possibly nervous, they will let you know one way or the other that it's time to make your move. But when you do, remember our rule and be respectful. Keep it classy, junior. (You know what I mean...)

Forget that Stupid "Wait Three Days to Call" Rule
Look , it's an idiotic rule. If you like the girl, call her the next day and tell her you had a good time and would like to do it again soon. Let her accept before you start offering dates for your next rendezvous. Be easy, brother. Once again, if it's meant to be, it will.

Progressing Your Relationship
Over the next few weeks and months, your time is going to be monopolized, your text messages are going to skyrocket and you're going to have a big goofy grin on your face. Why? Because you've found a girl that's been worth the wait.
Over this time, you're going to want to rush things. It's only human nature and it's definitely a man's nature. You'll have wants and "needs" that you want fulfilled but it's so very vital you remember that that woman is to be revered and respected. She is a gift from God to you and you treat gifts nicely, yes? This is no different.
Hold her hand and open her doors for her. Send her a text message first thing in the morning so she wakes up with a smile and a feeling that will carry her happily through her day. Pay for every meal and every activity--it's your responsibility because you are a gentleman; conduct yourself as such.
As your relationship progresses, fight the urge to take her for granted. She's going to want to buy you stuff and to treat you in a way that thanks you for respecting her as you have. When this happens, it'll be easy to relax and just "coast" through the relationship. Don't. A relationship that's worth having is worth working at. Remember that and it's unlikely that you'll go wrong.

COMMUNICATE
As your relationship moves further down the road, it's easy to expect her to just know how you're feeling or what kind of mood you're in. This isn't okay. Communicate with her, talk with her, and let her know what's going on with you and how you feel you feel about her -- every single day. It's the right thing to do. A relationship lacking communication is bound for the boonies and the boonies is never a good place. From the beginning to the end, always keep the lines of communication between you and your lady friend wide open.
On the flip side, if you feel like she isn't doing her best to let you know what's going on with her, ask her to be more open with you. That's called, wait for it...communicating! (See how that works?) Talking and discussing situations freely opens so many doors that seem firmly closed for good. And that, dear boy, is a good thing.

In the end, it all comes back to respecting your darling and the woman she is. Support her, be a rock for her, let her know she's on someone's mind daily. She'll appreciate this and that, in turn, will only make your life easier. If you need me to make it simpler for you, all I can give you is this old adage: treat her the way you'd want some bloke to treat your mom or future daughter. If you can't handle that, you probably shouldn't be pursuing women in the first place.
The Ubiquoutous Dr. Love Groove! What songs make you grind? Date: Jun 6th @ 3:52am EDT
I thought that you knew it all
Well you've seen it ten times before.
I thought that you had it down
With both your feet on the ground.
I love slow ... slow but deep.
Feigned affections wash over me.
Dream on my dear
And renounce temporal obligations.
Dream on my dear
It's a sleep from which you may not awaken.
You build me up then you knock me down.
You play the fool while I play the clown.
We keep time to the beat of an old slave drum.
You raise my hopes then you raise the odds
You tell me that I dream too much
Now I'm serving time in disillusionment.
I don't believe you anymore ... I don't believe you.
I thought that I knew it all
I'd seen all the signs before.
I thought that you were the one
In darkness my heart was won.
You build me up then you knock me down.
You play the fool while I play the clown.
We keep time to the beat of an old slave drum.
Music enhances whatever type of mood you're in. Take a look at a movie without its soundtrack or replace it with a track from an opposite genre and see what transpires.
When i'm in the mood to grind, to tease, to get naughty there are a few songs that do it.
Here is one of them:
By the Dead Can Dance

You raise my hopes then you raise the odds
You tell me that I dream too much
Now I'm serving time in a domestic graveyard.
I don't believe you anymore ... I don't believe you.
Never let it be said I was untrue
I never found a home inside of you.
Never let it be said I was untrue
I gave you all my time.
always better with more Date: Jun 3rd @ 3:54pm EDT
I had my first mfm this weekend! Woot! now i need more cock! here's some tips for your own threesome.
A threesome can be an amazing, electrifying, over the edge and breath-taking experience, but if you don't pay attention to some easy to follow threesome tips you might not get all the pleasure you want.

Excellent tips for a threesome imply that a woman should never be pushed into one if she doesn't desire it. Safety measures should always be taken by wearing condoms and dental dams. Make sure that, as a woman, you are emotionally prepared to see you partner be sexual with another female. You should also consider the next tips for having a threesome: never allow the guest to sleep over and be very conscious of what you want to achieve by having a threesome. If the relationship you have with your partner is not rock solid, don't involve yourselves into a threesome. Some tips for having a threesome recommend that the guest should be a person both partners feel physically attracted to. After all, we're talking about sex here.

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Some great tips for a threesome can be translated into a very effective list of do's and don'ts. Enjoy!

Don't laugh during a threesome.
Do let the ladies do what they please, even if they forget about you a little bit. You can still enjoy the moment by watching them.
Don't bring a girl home and force a threesome on your lady.
Do remember both women's names and never switch them.
Don't anticipate too much. Try to go with the flow.
Do take notes when the two women are pleasuring each other. You will know what to do when attention shifts to you.
Don't direct the action. You are not making an adult movie.
Do kiss, touch, fondle between each other.
Don't try to involve too many fantasies into the first threesome. At one point, it can get overwhelming.
Don't try to do too much in the first couple of minutes. You'll have time for everything.
Do make sure that you won't be disturbed.
Don't be afraid to tell your partners what you like and dislike in bed.
Don't boss your partners around.
Do try to be generous and give as much as you can.
Do remember that threesomes are about exploring your sexuality so do things you've never done before.
Do set some safety rules. If your partner is not comfortable with you kissing, going down or penetrating the other woman, you should abstain from it.
Do take all the time you need.
Don't say "I love you!". Even if you feel like saying it to your partner, keep in mind that it will make the guest feel uncomfortable. And never say it to the guest.
Don't scream names when you climax.
Do remember to take a shower before you begin.
Don't abuse alcohol.
Do keep your partner in sight by making deep and regular eye contact.
Don't video record the experience and pay attention to all the great threesome tips laid ahead.
Naughty Nanny and Grandpa! Date: May 25th @ 6:36am EDT
The Victorian period, saw an unprecedented output of erotic fiction, often written by 'hacks'. Some works, however, borrowed from established literary models, such as Dickens. It also featured a curious form of social stratification. Even in the throes of orgasm, the social distinctions between master and servant (including form of address) were scrupulously observed. Significant elements of sado-masochism were present in some examples, perhaps reflecting the influence of the English public school, where flagellation was routinely used as a punishment. These clandestine works were often anonymous or written under a pseudonym, and sometimes undated, thus definite information about them often proves elusive. nEnglish erotic novels from this period include The LunThe lustful Turk (1828); The Romance of Lust (1873); The Convent School, or Early Experiences of A Young Flagellant (1876) by Rosa Coote [pseud.]; The Mysteries of Verbena House, or, Miss Bellasis Birched for Thieving (1882) by Etonensis [pseud.], actually by George Augustus Sala and James Campbell Reddie; The Autobiography of a Flea (1887); Venus in India (1889) by 'Captain Charles Devereaux'; Flossie, a Venus of Fifteen: By one who knew this Charming Goddess and worshipped at her shrine (1897) and My Lustful Adventures by 'Ramrod'.nnAn important and entertaining conspectus and evaluation of 19th century (pre-1885) and earlier underground erotica, from the author's own private archive, is provided by Victorian writer Henry Spencer Ashbee in his bibliographical trilogy Index Librorum Prohibitorum (1877), Centuria Librorum Absconditorum (1879) and Catena Librorum Tacendorum (1885). His plot summaries of the works he discusses in these privately printed volumes are themselves a contribution to the genre. Originally of very limited circulation, changing attitudes have led to his work now being widely available.nNotable European works of erotica at this time were Gamiani, or Two Nights of Excess (1833) by Frenchman Alfred de Musset and Venus in Furs (1870) by the Austrian author Leopold von Sacher-Masoch. The latter erotic novella brought the attention of the world to the phenomenon of masochism, named after the authornTowards the end of the century, a more "cultured" form of erotica began to appear by such as the poet Algernon Charles Swinburne who pursued themes of paganism, lesbianism and sado-masochism in such works as Lesbia Brandon and in contributions to The Whippingham Papers (1888) edited by St George Stock, author of The Romance of Chastisement (1866). This was associated with the Decadent movement, in particular, with Aubrey Beardsley and the Yellow Book. But it was also to be found in France, amongst such writers as Pierre Louys, author of Les chansons de Bilitis (1894) (a celebration of lesbianism and sexual awakening).n
Do You Think Of Me? Date: May 21st @ 7:31pm EDT
I thought of you this weekend
my mind turns to you
as naturally as a smooth stone
must fall to the earth
because of that
I spend half of my life here
and half of my life in a dream
for so long I'd not tasted
what I had eaten
or seen where I had been
because my life drifts along
and my thoughts
are consumed with you
then this week
I found a beautiful ripe pear
and I stood at the sink
thinking I was prepared to eat
and as I held it to my mouth
I could smell its fragrance
I grew excited knowing
what I was about to experience
as I bit into the flesh
there was just a moment of resistance
from its smooth skin
before it gave way to my teeth
the next moment
I could feel the juices
running into the whiskers on my chin
and down my neck
then for a brief timeit seemed
that I had tried to take
too much of the fruit at once
my senses were overwhelmed
and as I pulled
the mouthful of fruit
away from its body
the juices covered my chin and neck again
and continued down to my chest
but in the end it was very satisfying
at the moment I enjoyed
that first tender bite
I thought of how satisfied I was
for that brief instant
and I thought of you

Wondering if anyone ever thinks of me in such a way? Do you lust for me? Do you want to own a piece of me? I"m ready!
Just What Is Fetish Called Capnolagnia? I love filming it! Date: May 20th @ 4:06pm EDT
Smoking fetishism (also known as capnolagnia) is a sexual fetish based on the sight or image of a person smoking. For many, the fetish appears to have had its roots in early in life. It is classically conditioned and shaped by many variables. These could include seeing the smoker as a stereotypically sweet, innocent individual behaving in ways that are considered taboo. For others, it stems from an attraction to more worldly people whose smoking epitomizes their strength and self-confidence. Within gay culture, this fetish often stems from the image of masculinity. A 2003 study found that the fetish was not previously the subject of academic study but had been mentioned in \"a few newspapers\"
According to a 2003 study, in fetish videos of smoking women, nudity is not necessary, and what matters is (they quote) \"the look, the attitude, the mannerism of smoking. The Wall Street Journal reported in 1996 on the success of a $35 video called \"Paula\" which featured a woman \"inhaling, exhaling and blowing the occasional set of smoke rings
The reasons why a man or woman has a smoking fetish may vary from person to person. It is thought that most smoking fetishists are heterosexual men, though there are small groups of homosexual and bisexual women who have expressed similar interests in the fetish. There are also heterosexual females who have professed to have a smoking fetish though this particular group has not been the subject of any study. Among heterosexual men, the fetish is often associated with oral fixations and fellatio and it is rather caused by the image of the woman smoking, than by the smell.It seems that the smell and taste of the cigarettes have a greater role to play in women\'s smoking behavior than in that of men

Some fetishists have a fascination with the addictive properties of nicotine, and its ability to cause harm, and there is a sub-fetish relating to women being harmed by smoking, sometimes called \"the dark side\", \"black lung fetish\" or \"lung damage\". This has been interpreted as an element of misogyny in the community\'s psychology.

Most of the fetishists are strongly attracted to the glamorous aspect of smoking by women, which has been historically considered a masculine habit. Smoking has been feminized especially with the advent of fashion brands specifically marketed towards women has drawn the attention of fetishists who see the use of these brands as a way for women to increase or enhance their sexual appeal. Most often this fascination is focused on young fashion-conscious professional women who are target demographic for these brands, which are differentiated by slimness and added length over traditional brands of cigarettes.

The increasing intensity of anti-smoking campaigns, moreover, turns smoking into a transgressive and taboo act; eroticized images of women smoking may take some of their power from depicting a taboo being broken[citation needed]. Another cultural source for the fetish may be eroticized depictions of women who smoke that come from older motion pictures, especially from the film noir era.

Men also enjoy seeing the smoke pouring from the woman\'s mouth or nostrils, though the reason behind this is still being researched. On the other hand, it has also been speculated that men who have smoking fetishes are more likely to have mothers who smoked, going back to the old belief that all men are secretly attracted to women who are just like their mothers.

Capnolagnia appears to be a little different in gay men than in heterosexual men. Some gay men take pleasure in watching visually a dominant men smoking, others are attracted to the \"innocent young man\" picking up smoking and the rebellious aspects of this action. Also, a part of the gay fetishists may consider the action of smoking as a part of growing up and becoming a real man process. In some cases the fetish appears to be linked with the fascination with smoke damage - the fetishist might find it arousing that a healthy man will subject himself to the damage of the smoke
YUMMMMM!!!!! Date: May 18th @ 4:06am EDT
It wasn't the most exciting night. Miri had decided to go for a few drinks at the dive bar down the street, but nothing was happening and nobody she knew was there. She ended up just sitting at the bar with her beer, pretending to text somebody. She didn't know how to be comfortable in a bar, alone. Kicking herself for thinking that coming to a bar by herself would be some great adventure, her plan was to finish her beer and go home.
As she was taking her final sip, a large ex-jock looking guy approached her. That big build, wide-neck type of guy who didn't go pro in college. Guys like that always moved on to something like sales or some type of finance job where they could make good money and continue their jock/fraternity lifestyle. These guys were usually quite good looking but almost always a disappointment in bed. Miri knew this form experience. She had no time for a guy like this, but she didn't know how to be mean, so she tried to pay and get out of there before he got to her.
"Hey. How's it going? Can I buy you a drink?" Too late. He came up to her left side at the bar and leaned in, giving her smile that was half arrogance and half lust. She was a little annoyed, but she braced herself for getting out of this without it being too awkward and without being too much of a bitch.
"Oh, hi. Uh, that's okay. My friends are at another bar and I have to go meet them. I was mixed up on the plans for the night. Sorry." She waved her phone as she spoke as evidence.
"Oh come on. One beer. Your friends can wait. Just let me buy you a beer and then I'll let you go." There was a glint in his eyes when he said this last line that made Miri pause. There was...something. He knew. He knew how to handle her. She sensed it. He wasn't your average dumb ex-jock, salesman. He might actually be good in bed. There was starting to be something very sexy about him and his cockiness. Perhaps this could make for a better night, after all.
"Okay. One beer, then I must go meet my friends." Miri sat back on her stool and relaxed while the man ordered two beers.
"I'm Jim." He put his hand out for an introductory shake and Miri kind of laughed at the cheesy formalness. It was endearing.
"Miri." She took his hand and squeezed as hard as she could to show him that she was not weak and that he would need to use some effort with her.
"Miri. That's not one I've heard before." He paid for the beers and then grabbed his mug taking a drink while eyeing her. He appreciated her dark hair. That was his preference. He also couldn't help but notice her athletic frame.
"It's short for Miriam, but I always found that too formal." She nervously turned her glass around on its coaster. She didn't want to look at his eyes just now because they were really turning her on and she had to make sure that she didn't give too much of herself to this guy. This was just going to be a fun one-night stand and nothing more.
Jim wouldn't break eye contact. He smiled at the fact that she was being shy. He could tell that she wanted him, but he also knew that she wasn't your average easy lay. She was up for more. She was up for being controlled. She was up for intensity, but she also needed to be finessed. She needed to be seduced. No problem, he knew how to seduce a girl and he felt particularly lucky because, if he was right, he didn't get a chance to hit on girls like this every night.
He felt himself getting hard thinking of her in his cuffs. He knew that he wouldn't have to groom her into it; she would be into it right away. He didn't quite know how he knew this, maybe it was that lustful look she had in her green eyes, or maybe it was some subconscious body language she was giving off, but he wasn't going to hesitate bringing out his bondage gear with this one. He took another drink without taking his focus off her. She was definitely going to be his tonight.
"What do you do, Miri?" He took a drink and made eye contact with her.
"I own my own resale business but that's boring and you don't really care anyway." She was feeling bolder now and she felt like playing. "How do you like sales, Jim? Car dealership or some sort of real estate?" She wanted to let him know just how transparent he was.
"I'm an attorney, actually." He sounded a little annoyed but also a little amused. "If you want to keep being smug, I guess you could say that I sell souls." He looked down at her legs, appreciating the shape that could be seen through her jeans.
"Just so you know, up front, mine is not up for sale." Miri smiled playfully at him. "My soul, that is." The second beer was making her feel a bit tipsy and she was starting to appreciate his ruffled sandy blond hair. It framed his face quite well, and those eyes. The darkness of the brown made them even more intense.
"Everything is for sale, Miri. Everything. The only thing that changes is the currency." He was getting hard. He really couldn't wait to pull her hair. It looked like silk in the bar lights. Her particular dark shade of brown was his favorite. Especially when it wasn't over processed looking. Natural hair was the best to pull.
"Well, somebody sounds jaded." Miri laughed as she pushed his shoulder a little bit. This was a sure sign of flirting but also a way to determine what his shape was like. His shoulder felt solid to her. She could feel herself getting wet. She downed the rest of her beer. Here was the test. How was he going to get her to stay after she finished her beer? Now she would find out if he had real seduction skills.
"Not jaded, just a realist." Jim loved the feeling of Miri's hand pushing against his shoulder. She wouldn't be using her hands much tonight, though. He couldn't wait to get her out of her clothes. He waved over the bartender. "I think you want another beer, Miri." He looked at her with a look of confidence that told Miri that she would not be sorry if she stayed. She wasn't going to be that easy, though.
"I actually have to go. I do appreciate the beer and the conversation, but my friends are waiting for me." She put her cell phone in her purse and started to dismount the bar stool but stopped when Jim grabbed her upper arm lightly but firmly.
"Come on, Miri. You don't want to go. Stay. Have another beer. We only just started getting to know each other."
"Really, Jim. I have to go. I appreciate your insistence and I'm flattered, but I have other people to delight with my presence." Miri gently pulled her arm out of his hand and stood from the bar stool while arranging her purse. She was disappointed that he wasn't more creative in trying to stop her. Maybe he wasn't what she thought.
"I like the hard-to-get game sometimes, Miri, but right now I am going to be honest. I don't want to miss this chance, because I feel that if we don't stay in each other's company, we might miss out on something quite memorable" He was standing now. "Let's forget the beer and walk out to the parking lot together. I want to kiss you Miri and if, after we kiss, you still want to leave, then I won't put up anymore resistance."
"What? Sorry, what?" Miri was shocked at his forwardness. She wasn't offended and it turned her on even more, but she couldn't show that right away. "You just met me!" She looked at him in feigned shock.
"Yeah, and I like you. Go ahead Miri. Walk to your car and I'll follow. I want you to kiss me before you go. I can tell that you're not completely against the idea. Stop playing games and just go with it. If you don't like the kiss, tell me and I won't bother you anymore. If you like it as much as I think you will, then I'll put you in my car and take you to my place. Let's be honest, neither one of us are interested in staying at the bar."
Miri stared at him in astonishment and arousal. She had never gotten such a direct invitation to sex from somebody this sober before. She snapped out of it and hoped that her arousal had not shown on her face. Shaking her head to cover for any excitement she might have shown.
"Really Jim, thank you, but I have to go. Maybe we'll see each other again when I don't already have plans." She turned around and started walking towards the door with purpose. Inside she had butterflies and hoped that he would keep pursuing her. This was her game and it was probably a little tired, but when it worked, it was exciting and she couldn't help but try.
Miri pushed the bar door open and stepped out into the parking lot. She started to turn around to say goodbye as she felt him behind her. Jim grabbed her and pushed her against the outside wall of the bar. He used her shock to hold her head and kissed her hard. She was, at first, so shocked that she pushed him away, weakly, but still tried to push him away.
His strong presence was too intoxicating and she melted into him, kissing him back. Miri's scent of vanilla rose around Jim and immediately Jim pulled a handful of her silky hair to move her head back so that he could kiss her neck. It was the cliché stolen kiss against the wall, but that didn't make it any less exciting.
"Let's go, Miri." Jim breathed into her ear as he pulled her hair a little harder and chewed on her neck. Miri gasped. She loved the sound of him saying her name.
They heard some people approaching the exit from the other side and Jim straightened himself but kept his arms against the wall so that she was still pinned against it. Miri looked up at him and just nodded her head with that look of being thoroughly seduced on her face. Jim smiled and backed away so that she could move forward. He then took a hold of her waist and guided her to his car.

While Jim and Miri were lost in their world, somebody else was watching this whole scene with great interest. As they got into Jim's car, Selma grabbed her phone and typed in the license plate number. If she lost him, she wanted to make sure she could catch up with them later. She sneered at the car as it drove past her and put her car into drive. She was very disappointed in Miri. It had only been a few days since Miri had ended her last fling and Selma was hoping to put her plan into place before another one came in the picture.
Miri was quite the little slut. Over the year that Selma had been watching her, she observed that Miri couldn't go more than a week without having a one-night stand or a fling. It annoyed Selma and made her feel jealous rage, but she knew that she would use Miri's possible sex addiction to her advantage. She had to keep her jealousy at bay. Miri would be under her control soon and she would have all of that slutty energy for herself.
She was starting to think that it was time to make her first move. She had been watching Miri for over a year and she knew this woman more than Miri knew herself. Selma was sure of that. Miri seemed like a lost soul who was guided by her clit. Selma wanted to step in and be Miri's guide. She had been working out a whole program for Miri. If this turned out as it should, Miri would deliver herself to Selma on her own and no laws would be outright broken.
She had been studying Miri for so long that she was pretty sure she knew enough about her psychologically that she could condition that girl to do anything. Lucky for Miri, all Selma wanted was a bondage pet. The way Selma saw it, Miri was lucky that she came along because if somebody else had noticed how easy it would be to ensnare her, she might have ended up in a much more dangerous and painful situation. Miri was
Star Wars Nerd And Proud Of It! Date: May 16th @ 8:44pm EDT
Star Wars has intrigued and fascinated many people ever since the first film was shown on May 25, 1977. Star Wars fans can be found in all quarters of the world, collecting, cosplaying, and sharing their Star Wars joy online. If you're keen to find ways to make me purr for you, read further. Its not just men that are big time Star Wars fans! There are us women as well! A starwars junkie is one hot piece of ass!
Get copies of all the movies. They're all available on DVDs and they're all available at a reasonable price, so there's really no excuse for skipping this step if you're aiming to be a true Star Wars fan. Sit through all the films if you haven't seen them all yet. As you're watching, note things that interest you, such as great lines, costumes, your favorite characters, etc., as these will influence your choices as to how far you're taking your Star Wars fandom.
Compare and contrast the similarities and differences between the films. What are some of the most noticeable things for you?
Watch The Clone Wars on TV or DVD. These latter day cartoons resume the Star Wars tales with very modern animation. They're often found on channels.
Once you've watched the movies, consider also watching the fan films. There are lots of them, they're a great deal of fun and many are very clever. There are even top rated ones online.[1] These can be found easily online, on sites such as YouTube.
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Learn the philosophical and other relevant underpinnings of Star Wars movies. There are quite a few important messages to be gained from the Star Wars films and when defending your fan-love for Star Wars, a good understanding of the Star Wars philosophy can come in handy. Indeed, understanding the themes behind the Star Wars movies will enhance your experience as a fan and encourage you to continue the fight of good against evil. You may or may not agree with the following suggestions for the themes in Star Wars but that's good because it will get you thinking and reaching your own conclusions:
The anti-bullying theme.[2] This is big theme in Star Wars. Nasty people get their comeuppance, as it should be. Good stands against evil and friends stick by you no matter how bad things get.
The inability to control one's destiny and how that directs your life.[3]
The utility of living according to a code of conduct.[4]
The self-destructiveness of a lust for power, and living in fear, anger, hate, and selfishness.[5]
The power of knowledge.
The importance of maintaining self-discipline over all emotions, including love.[6] Anakin loved deeply but failed to discipline this part of himself and subsequently lost control as a result and went to the dark side.
The reality that good and evil carry shades of gray and can cross over. Not everything is as it seems and we must all continue working hard to better ourselves and not make assumptions about how the world works.[7]
The wielding of technology changes it from a neutral tool into whatever the person wielding it decides.[8]
George Lucas was a student of mythology. Read up on his background and the myths that influenced his thinking.
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Learn Learn all you can about the Star Wars characters, from the most famous down to the blink-and-you'll-miss-them ones. They all have a role to play and some are clearly more interesting than others. Which are your favorites and your least favorite? As part of your studies, also spend time learning the various family trees, timelines, and various events relevant to each story.
Study the famous lines from Star Wars movies. Memorize the lines you'd like to be able to say when meeting other Star Wars fans. You might want to go easy around people who don't "get" Star Wars though! Here are just a few of the lines:[9][10]
"The Force is with you."
"May the Force be with you."
"Use the Force, Luke."
"I find your lack of faith disturbing."
"Help me Obi-Wan Kenobi. You're my only hope."
"The Force is strong with this one."
"I suggest a new strategy, R2. Let the wookiee win."
"Don't call me a mindless philosopher, you overweight glob of grease."
"Watch your mouth k**, or you'll find yourself floating home."
"Aren't you a little short for a stormtrooper?"
"Evacuate in our moment of triumph? I think you overestimate their chances."
"It's a trap!".
Use Star Wars speaking mannerisms. As well as quoting the lines from the movies, you can also improve your everyday speech with some Star Wars affectations. Learn Yoda's grammar[11] and diction[12] to speak like him. Wave your hand like a Jedi when you want someone to do something and say: "You WILL not assign any homework today." "You will give me a bigger allowance." "You WILL buy me lunch."...etc. Watch the characters and mimic their language and stances. This will make the effect of your copying more effective and enjoyable.
Go searching for Star Wars sites online. You will be amazed at the breadth of official sites, fan sites, fan blogs, and many other sites related to Star Wars. It'll take you some time to work through them and find the ones you like the most. There are so many that it's impossible to list them all but I bet you'll be able to find me on a couple of them
Play Star Wars games. If you like games, there are lots of Star Wars game choices from board games to video games. You can search through auction sites for original Star Wars board games and vintage Atari games, go online for Star Wars online games, and visit your local games store for contemporary Star Wars games on most platforms. There are also tabletop model games (see the image), card games, and other types of games all based on Star Wars. You can even make your own Star Wars games if you're a game-maker.
Get into cosplay. There are plenty of opportunities to get dressed up as your favorite Star Wars character and hang around other besotted fans at conventions. Star Wars costumes are available for purchase from many online stores, as well as costume stores, or you can make your own. Look for science fiction conventions or even ones focused purely on Star Wars and plan your appearance. If you can go along with friends, all the better as you can theme your costumes together.
Wear Star Wars gear. There are t-shirts galore featuring Star Wars themes, characters, quotes, and logos. A quick online scout around will have you finding more things than you have time wear. Select the ones that appeal to you most. Look for items such as t-shirts, belt buckles, badges, jewelery, etc. There are plenty of stores online selling Star Wars clothes and accessories, as well as auction sites.
Start collecting Star Wars memorabilia. There is an insane amount of Star Wars merchandise out there - display your devotion to the Star Wars universe to the world (or at least your minor obsession)! While this could prove a never-ending time- and budget-sucking pastime, for many Star Wars fans, a collection of all things Star Wars is the ultimate in Star Wars fandom. There are a lot of possibilities, including movie items, figurines, Lego, action figures,[19] Pez dispensers, costumes, light sabers, etc. The small plastic figures (the originals from the 70s are a major bonus), and the metal lightsaber replicas are some of the best SW fan merchandise you can get.

the space.
Movie props and advertisements can be a great collectible if you have the space.

If you like models, look for models that you can put together yourself.
If you like models, look for models that you can put together yourself. Things such as spaceships and robotics make good models. You could also try making your own.

Take your figurines to work and attach them to the top of your cubicle for others to see.
Take your figurines to work and attach them to the top of your cubicle for others to see. Just be careful of anyone else nabbing them though.
Search online and on auction sites for memorabilia, sites such as eBay or amazon.com or Craigslist. Don't forget estate and garage sales either (often the best finds); collectibles turn up in the strangest of places. And many games stores and antique shops (for vintage and otherwise), are also good choices.
Visit the filming locations. There are several places where you can visit the filming locations in Los Angeles, England, Italy, Tunisia, and others. Check online for tour times and locations. You might even like to plan an entire vacation around visiting them. Check out the Star Wars Locations site for more details on visits.[20]
If you're already into making films at home, consider making your own Star Wars fan film tribute.


A Tease Gets Hers Date: May 12th @ 8:24am EDT


Randi looked into Mike's eyes and sucked slowly on the straw of her vanilla milkshake. She let a little of the sweet, creamy drink spill out on her lips and licked it up with her wet, pink tongue.

They had been out to see a movie and stopped by McDonalds on the way back to his place. Now seated on the couch, Randi continued the teasing she had been so relentless at for the entire three weeks they had been dating.

Her eyes turned down in mock coyness then she looked up at him again and said "I just LOVE sucking the white liquid up out of it!". Then turned her eyes down again, feigning shame.

Mike had been attracted to her beauty, her brains and, it's true, her sexy banter. He had been patient, he didn't expect her to fuck him on the first date, and he knew she didn't have to fuck him at all. He wasn't even opposed to teasing, as long as it led somewhere, but DAMN he was tired of having her wave the scent under his nose and then bouncing off home like nothing had happened.

She stuck her tongue out and licked the length of the straw. "Stop it Randi!" Mike said with a growl.

"Stop what?" she looked up at him with that little girl expression.

"I've had it with the tease thing, get out." He said with finality.

She set the shake down and gave him her hurt puppy look. "You think I'm a tease?"

Mike snapped, he grabbed her wrist and drug her across his lap, bottom up. "I'm going to teach you a lesson you should have learned long ago!" he rumbled at her and flipped her skirt up to reveal the small red strap of a silk thong between her round ass cheeks. Mike didn't even notice, he simply raised his hand and let a stinging smack fall on her.

Randi yelped as her cheeks reddened. "Oooo!" she said as Mike let another blow rain on her. Still another strike cracked loudly against her warm ass, now nearly as red as her thong.

Mike's anger was cooling. He stopped and started to think, "What have I done? She could have me arrested!" His hand was poised in midair for another smack, as he thought better of it.

"Why did you stop? We were just getting to the good part." Randi asked.

Mike looked down at her, lying across his lap. She wiggled her hips in his lap and giggled. He finally looked at her bottom as something other than the target of his anger, the bare cheeks, and the silky thong. He saw that the thong was becoming wet. He noticed the aroma of arousal in the air. He realised Randi needed the punishment and domination to get started.

Mike let one harder smack come down on her and snarled at her "Now I'm going to punish you properly."

"Oh no!" Randi begged, "Don't spank my bare ass and make me do dirty things!" She wiggled harder against Mike's lap and his cock began to harden and poke into her.

"Shut up, and lift your ass!" Mike demanded. Randi instantly complied and Mike slid the thong down and off. Her pussy lips were slick and glistening with juice between her legs. She had apparently shaved recently and was completely bare.

Mike stroked his palm over her hot skin. Randi was now nearly dry humping his lap.
He smacked her one more time for good measure, and Randi shuddered. "Had she just come?" he wondered. He stroked her again and let two fingers slide between her legs.

Randi quivered and let her legs separate slightly. She was very wet. At the touch of his fingers, Randi's pussy bloomed like a flower. She again begged in mock sincerity "No! Please don't put your fingers in me!"

Mike now knew how the game was played and rubbed her vulva a little and slipped his index finger into her slowly. She was hot inside. Mike could hardly wait to slide his thick hard cock into that heat. She had teased him for a long time though, and he determined that he must repay her, at least in small measure. He moved his finger around in her and she squirmed. Mike leaned over and bit her right cheek and she squealed.

Randi was panting. Her face and chest were now flushed nearly as red as her butt. Her big nipples ached as they rubbed against the rough fabric of the couch, even through her silk blouse.

Mike decided she'd had enough warming up. It was his turn now. "Get on the floor and suck my cock!" he ordered.

Randi scrambled off his lap and onto her knees on the floor in front of him. She worked feverishly at his belt and pants to reach his dick. Mike slid his hips to the edge of the couch to assist her. When his stiff cock sprang free, Randi snatched in her hand and rubbed the head across her lips.

Mike looked at her face and saw her lips shining, glossed with his pre-cum. Her eyes shined also. She looked directly into his eyes and licked the underside of the head. "No more teasing bitch." He told her. "I said SUCK it!" and he put his hand on the back of her head and guided her mouth over his cock.

Randi took him as deep as she could and sucked hard, swirling her tongue on the big vein on the bottom. He was pulsingly hard, and she moaned around him. Randi began to bob up and down on the stiff cock in her mouth. She gripped it with one hand and cupped his balls with the other. She emitted a constant stream of sounds, slurps, moans and squeals.

Mike knew he couldn't last long with her sucking him like this. "Damn this girl can suck cock!" he thought. He pushed her back off of him, and she looked up at his face puzzled and hungry. "Take off your top." Mike instructed.

Randi rapidly stripped to the waist. Her large breasts were now open to his view at last. She pinched both nipples and looked at him.

"Finish undressing me." He told her.

She took off his shoes and slid his pants off and tossed them out of the way. When she had finished she looked up at Mike, awaiting his next order.

Mike slipped his sweater and t-shirt off and looked at her, still on her knees at his feet.
"Play with those big tits of yours" he told her.

Randi lifted a heavy boob in each hand, letting him see the weight of them. Then as she held them elevated, she again pinched her nipples. She closed her eyes and hissed as she plucked at the hard buds. They became even darker red as she touched them.

"Now suck your nipples." Mike told her. "I know you've done it before, you've sucked those horny nipples a lot I bet."

Randi blushed and used both hands to lift her left breast to her lips. Mike was right she often sucked her nipples, dreaming of the time Mike would order her to bend over and take him. She closed her lips on the hard nub and sucked. She moaned as she did, nearly coming from the pleasure.

"That's enough!" Mike stopped her. "Now suck me some more." was his next command.

She continued to moan as she took his cock back into her mouth. Randi put her right hand under her skirt to play with her clit as she followed her mouth up and down with the other. Once again Randi slurped, squealed and moaned up and down the length of his dick. This time the sounds seemed more urgent and pleading.

Mike looked and saw that one of her hands was not visible. "Hold my balls with your other hand!" he said sharply.

Randi was engaged in the task of sucking him off while getting herself off. At the sound of his demand her eyes snapped open and she looked into his eyes and gave a startled, pleading sound. She was seconds from orgasm, she wanted to come, and he wanted her to stop!

"I didn't say you could come yet!" he told her. "Now hold my balls like you did before!"

Reluctantly Randi stopped playing with her clit and cupped his balls.

"Good girl." He praised her.

Randi felt like a violin string about to break as she bobbed on his cock. Mike saw his dick shine with her saliva and got an idea. "Fuck your tits with my cock." He said.

She sat up slightly and wrapped her large bosom around his slick cock, and then she began to move up and down holding her tits together around him.

Mike began to thrust up at her mouth. He loved the soft, warm feeling of her tits.

She saw the tip of his cock poke out with each up thrust and Randi stuck out her tongue to lick it each time it came though. This added to the slipperiness of her cleavage.

Mike was getting close again, but he still wanted to draw it out and tease her some more. Now it's time to really turn up the heat he decided. "Bend over the arm of the couch!" he growled.

Randi once again, nearly came. "Oh wonderful!" she gasped. She threw herself down, ass up, ready and VERY willing.

Mike stood and walked behind her. He lifted her skirt and looked at her.

She spread her legs so he could see her dripping pussy. Randi could feel his eyes on her. It was almost a caress, but not quite. She squirmed. "Please!" this time her begging was sincere.

He placed one hand on each buttock. Mike leaned forward and tasted her pussy lips.

A high-pitched, keening sound came from Randi lips. She panted for breath as if she had run 5 miles as Mike's tongue left.

"Oh no!" she pouted.

"You want something?" Mike asked her.

"You know I do." She answered.

"What?"

"I want it ALL! I want your tongue, your fingers your cock, just GIVE IT TO ME!" she shouted.

Mike stepped forward and drove his dick into her to the hilt. He took hold of her hips and began pounding her.

Randi closed her eyes and hummed with pleasure, feeling his cock plunder her wonderfully. His balls slapped her clit with each stroke and Randi knew she was no more than a dozen strokes from coming.

Mike thrust into her hard twice more, and held himself in, grinding around against her.

Randi was gasping. If he thrust twice more, she would explode.

But Mike had other ideas. He pulled out and stepped back.

"Nooooo!" Randi screamed.

"Turn around." He ordered.

Randi turned to face him. She was frantic. She had just had a fantastic sexual experience that ended 10 seconds too soon. She was sweating, glowing red, panting, her eyes wild, her pussy flowing down her legs. "What?!" she demanded.

Mike told her "For the last three weeks I've had to get myself off after every date with you. Tonight, I'm going to do it one more time, and you're going to watch." With that Mike began to jerk off, right in front of her face.

Randi wailed in frustration. She looked at his stiff cock, his hand stroked rapidly up and down on the shaft, slick and shining with her juice. She couldn't help it; she began to rub her clit at a furious pace.

"That's good, now you get the idea." Mike gasped out. His breath caught and he pointed his cock at her chest. He grunted and blasted his hot, wet load out over her tits.

When she felt the white sticky semen splash on her tits, Randi twitched, shuddered and came so hard she fell off the arm of the couch to her knees. She rubbed the hot fluid over her nipples, gasping for breath.

When the panting had slowed a little Mike told her "Next time you talk dirty to me, expect to get fucked hard!"

"Yes sir." Randi agreed.
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